Nobody is born bitter or frustrated, but it is the attitudes that we take towards life that have made us be like that, that is why it is urgent to raise awareness and return to the course of our life
Undoubtedly we all know that typical person who is bitter, frustrated or angry with life, we commonly live with them, whether they are our friends, family or colleagues, and in the worst case we can be ourselves, let’s accept it , are things that happen.
It is said that our childhood is the happiest stage, because we know our grandparents, we live more with the family, they spoil us a lot, there are fewer responsibilities, we play more, we laugh more, we cry little, and a large part of life is pure happiness, but with the passage of time, the difficulties begin to increase.
Although we do not want to accept it, life is not easy at all, and happiness cannot be full either, in this world there is everything, and therefore we have to learn to navigate with what we have and with the best possible attitude, not letting anything completely overwhelms us, is to survive without sacrificing our own happiness.
You focus more on the problems: If it is difficult for you to give a 100% approval without first finding a fault or something that you did not like, then you yourself are to blame for living like this. Hey, what did you think of the day? Ah well, very nice, but … How hot it was. Hey and did you like the food? Yes, it was delicious, but … it had a lot of fat. Nothing seems to you! One day accept the good things in life without buts and you will see how everything changes in your favor.
Burdened by the future: We all live a little worried about our future, because we want to grow, innovate, excel, etc. But it is one thing that we are curious about the future and another that we live tormented to know if we will achieve our goals or not; no matter what religion you have, where was your faith? Your hope in that inner strength, on the planet, in space, in the stars or whatever you believe, lives taking care of doing something for your well-being in the short, medium and long term but do not fall into torment.
You do not overcome the past: Without a doubt, there is not a single person who does not have something that he / she would like to change from the past or who would have preferred not to live, however, that has already happened, it is no longer under your control, and that’s it. , there is no way to change it; In any case, what you can do is change the way you reinterpret what happened, dry your tears and learn from that old lesson to be better and better.
Wanting to have everything under control: There are people who want to control the lives of their children, husband, neighbor, friend, teacher, firefighter, politician, Hey! what wear for you, what way to lower your batteries; There are no magic pills that solve the problems of the world, but just in case, stay away from the conditions of codependent love, and this applies in many cases, because in truth it is bitter, if you are seeing that that person or group of people or that in that place does not want you, why do you stay? You alone make life bitter, is it worth it?