They say that love gives you shine, but it also takes it away, however, you can get it back when you understand that you did not deserve a half romance like that
Ending a relationship is not a simple situation at all, everyone lives their process differently, but when you are really in love, the pain of goodbye penetrates to the deepest , the world feels like it is coming on top of you, the idea of thinking that who you love no longer corresponds to you, tears inside, but it gets out of there, blessed be the breakup that made you stronger, more mature and happier.
A lot of illusions are broken, plans for the future fall to the ground like broken glass, a thunder can leave you in total depression , that’s why they say that love gives you shine, but it also takes it away from you , but you can return it to yourself yourself, recover and turn on your light again, later you will realize that the breakup that made you stronger, more mature and happier was blessed, because you will finally have learned to let go.
The breakup hurts, it can leave you on the ground for months, crying, wondering what you did wrong, what you did wrong, what you missed and what made him forget his promises of love, your love, what happened so that he would no longer want to continue fighting for you and for his relationship, but later you understand that the problem was not you when you knew how to love and give the best of yourself.
A love breakup hurts to the deepest, because accepting that you will no longer have that future next to the person you thought would be with you all your life, is like receiving a direct blow to the face, realizing all the time that was thrown in the trash, so many projects that are no longer going to be carried out and now all that remains is to get out of the habit of that person, to send him a good morning message, to ask him how he is.
In the end, he did not disappoint you, you disappointed yourself due to the high expectations that you reflected on him when his actions and reasons that he gave you to do so, were almost nil, but you clung to the idea that it was the perfect person for you, that with your love he would change or everything was enough as long as you were there with him.
When they break up the relationship you are left with a broken heart in a thousand pieces, you cry, complain, yell, you even ask him not to leave your side, to try again, but he leaves you without caring about your suffering, he has already made the decision and there will be nothing to change his mind, he will simply walk away and possibly even have your replacement and other arms to take refuge in.
You cry, you get angry, you live your process, until one fine day you say "enough is enough", you wipe your tears, you get up from the ground, you get pretty and you begin to accept that that relationship is over, but that life goes on, you makes it much stronger and also with many lessons learned and that you will use with the next one who wants to enter your heart, because you will know that words are worthless, deeds are
You are not going to let yourself be fooled so easily by someone else who arrives speaking nicely to you, you are no longer going to allow them to want to come and play with your time and making you believe that now they are the right one, with all the experience that your ex left you, you know that They have to prove everything to you with facts, because you don’t fall for it the first time, you matured a lot in that romance thing.
Your shine returns and you understand that your happiness cannot depend on anyone else, only on yourself , you do not give control of your emotions to someone else, you understand that you are fine as a single person, that there is no rush to find someone who be by your side, you learn to be alone and comfortable with your singleness, you become enlightened again, to find meaning in things and you become unbreakable, so if it broke your soul but it opened your eyes, stay with that victory.