Deep down you know that he is not for you, let him go

Deep down you know that he is not for you, let him go

You know very well that he is not destined for you, that fate only crossed them on the road to be fleeting, but not to form that couple and romance that you dream of.

Fate at some point crossed them on the road, made their eyes meet, at the time everything was rosy, but later it also gave you the signs that he is not for you , that his was just of something fleeting and that deep down you know well , you do understand that it hurts you and that you must let it go , so don’t cling, turn around and get out of there.

At first it was nice, you even admit that he was so good at making you believe that he loved you , that he cared about you and that he would stay with you forever, but you yourself became aware of all those red flags that are in their relationship, you very much in deep down you know well that he is not for you, that he is not for you because he will never be able to complement your happiness as you would like , let him go.

You fell madly in love with that person, you settled for the little love and attention that he offered you, but you also realized that his could not continue like this, that it was not enough and that you deserve better, even if it costs you work and even if It’s painful for you, you have to let it go, you can’t stay where they love you halfway and where they make you happy at times.

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Deep down you know that he is not for you, let him go. Photo: Pexels.

He did some things to make you fall in love with him, but your self-esteem from the bottom of your head yells at you that you don’t deserve a half-hearted love, that he’s not for you, that you can’t continue to settle for the little he wants to give you, right now. you realized all the negative points that it has and that your relationship has, you recognize that it does not do you any good and does not bring you anything.

As much as you want to blindfold yourself and pretend everything is fine, the reality is that you know perfectly well that you cannot stay with someone who makes you laugh one day and then make you cry for three days, that you cannot continue with someone who is so cold with you and that he only talks to you nicely when he needs you, that he leaves when things get complicated.

Stop waiting for him to change, he won’t do it for you if he doesn’t want it, he tells you that he will change only when he feels that he is going to lose you or you are going to leave, but he has also realized that you can’t do it, because you make up your mind and don’t pluck up the courage to turn around and say goodbye forever, but the time will come when you will be forceful and leave forever.

Stop trying to insist, say goodbye to those who are not willing to love you, to discover what is in the depths of your soul, you already understood that it is not for you no matter how much you want to find a single reason to stay and fight, leave it go once and for all, it will cost you, it will even hurt you because you had already had illusions and visualized by your side for the rest of your life.

Over time you will realize that leaving was the best thing you could do, and that is that you must put your self-esteem, your dignity, stop waiting for him to change one day or justify his actions that hurt you by saying "that’s just how he is "At the first sign of a bad attitude you have to leave, because if he doesn’t know how to treat you and take care of you, it’s not worth it.

Over time you will see that the wound of having left him will heal, you will understand that not clinging to people is the greatest act of love you can do for yourself, you are worth a lot and soon that being will come who knows how to love you as you deserve it, also very deep down you will know when he is the one to form a life by his side.