Although he married in love, his marriage is in danger since he literally feels that he married his mother-in-law and not his wife
Hearing "I married my mother-in-law and I don’t know what to do" really sounds somewhat alarming and strange, and the confession that came to us speaks of a case that a recently married man lives.
When a couple decides to join, you know in advance that each party has a past just like a family, but the issue of the mother-in-law is important for many and more when the wedding arrives .
What happens to Carlos is that he literally claims to have married his mother-in-law since she is the one who intervenes in his marriage and with whom he must make agreements that should be two, he and his wife.
He shares that since he began the relationship with his girlfriend they took the family issue little by little, but when he discovered why he realized that even before his father and his children there was the mother-in-law.
We all adore that our mother pampers us, but just as they formed a family with their partner, the same will happen with their daughters, there will be good and bad things in this but it is part of learning.
"My problem is that I fell in love so much that after six months of relationship I was willing to marry her, I had seen her mother only a couple of times and when we asked her what we wanted to do, she was not entirely convinced," says Carlos. .
The wedding was something simple from which we divided expenses, now where would we live? We had a house to rent on our doorstep, but faced with some inconveniences we had to go to my wife’s parents’ house.
That’s when the problems began, it is true of the saying that the married man wants to house but for a little while we would have to put up with ourselves, in reality my mother-in-law is attentive others but makes her feel with the right to have an opinion.
My wife adores her parents and it is fine, but we have problems because it puts them above me in the aspect of a couple and that should not be, since the decisions regarding the future and the present are ours.
Just as one day I commented to her “it seems that I married my mother-in-law and not you”, she was upset by the comment but it was the only way I found for her to open her eyes or this would not work.
Honestly, my mother-in-law tolerates me, but I know that she does not like me, I do not want to go wrong with her but I want to rescue my marriage, I asked for help and the best thing was to talk to my wife seriously and the decision will be to get out of there.
I know that parents will always look for the best for their children, but when you get married you have to show the family respect for the couple and be on the side of each one, since the main thing is support, communication and trust For a marriage to last, he trusted that it will.
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