Story: My lover told me he would get divorced 5 years ago and he doesn’t

Story: My lover told me he would get divorced 5 years ago and he doesn't

A woman narrates her life story when she is with a married man who has promised her that he will divorce her but 4 years have passed since that promise and she is not clear

The ways of loving are different and infinite, there is no judging, everyone is allowed to be free to make decisions in their love life as best suits them. Today we present the story of a woman who explains how she has already been living for 5 years with a man who is married and who has promised her that he will divorce her, but the years go by and she does not see clearly.

I have received a lot of criticism for having a secret relationship , my man is married, he has been in a loving relationship with me for 5 years , he always tells me that he is going to get a divorce, but he does not. I’ll tell you a little about how things turned out.

He and I have known each other since we were little, then each one made his life, we both got married, we didn’t see each other until after we already had children. My husband dies and I am a widow, then he comes to give me condolences, this made us get closer.

My lover told me that he would get divorced 5 years ago and he doesn't. Photo: Unsplash
My lover told me that he would get divorced 5 years ago and he doesn’t. Photo: Unsplash

First we went out as friends, I already knew he was married, but we didn’t care and we started having a secret relationship, he tells me that he loves me and that he will soon leave his wife, he has told me this for five years, and always I fall for what he tells me, I believe him.

The truth is that I have already come to think that he will never get a divorce, this makes me feel that he has me bewitched with love, the truth is that being lovers is good for me, but I have also reached a point where I want more. My story might be a bit strange, but it’s more common than you think.

I plucked up the courage to quit, I’m in therapy, regardless of whether what I was doing was right or wrong, human beings are free to love whoever we want, but that doesn’t mean they love us whenever we want. My advice is don’t waste your time with someone who will never get a divorce.

It’s difficult, but I hope to get out of all this, he keeps begging me, he cries at my door and says I have to give him time to start a divorce. A difficult situation, I suffer a lot, but it is part of freeing myself from this. Thank you In couple for posting my story.