Ending a relationship is a painful process that should not be trivialized at all with phrases that are abusive and meaningless
When you break up with someone there can be thousands of reasons or thousands of excuses, but the most important thing is that no one gets hurt , more than they probably already are. Put yourself in the other’s shoes!
So that it does not happen to you and ignoring the classic "it’s not you, it’s me", we leave you with this list of phrases that you should never say when cutting off with your partner.
Take into account that the part that does not want to finish already faces a difficult process , so that you complicate it with trivial or irrelevant phrases. Remember that you could be the one in their place.
It is a reality that even the most in love couples fail, because throughout the relationship we make mistakes that cost us the relationship. The important thing is that you assume that nothing is forever, except love and that it takes more than just that feeling to preserve it.
This is what you should never say when breaking up with your partner:
You will fall in love again
It is very painful that when you feel something for someone, they trivialize or minimize it by saying that just around the corner you will feel the same for another person, as if this relationship and its end were any activity on your agenda for you.
We can still be friends
No one wants to be friends with the partner they just broke up with unless there is extreme dependence on the person or the love has been entirely charred.
You’ll be fine?
Asking this question sounds a bit bogus and a lot egomaniacal, you don’t want to sound too concerned about someone’s survival after your departure, you’d better not say anything.
You will find someone better than me
By saying this you are only realizing that the love you felt was never enough to improve you as a person or as a lover and you gave up.
This demonstration sounds very bad because you are leaving a person, and saying it seems like you wash your hands and remove yourself from any responsibility towards this person, do not do it!
Remember that, even if the relationship ends, you should always act so that the end is worthy of the love that once existed, so be nice to your now ex-partner and if you want to say something to him, try to make it good.
In case it is a claim, try to express it without resentment, after all it is ending and it will help you to be as peaceful as possible.
In case you are the one going through the pain of a relationship that ends, here are five steps to overcome a love breakup. They will be of great help to you! Remember the world does not end.