The high price of loving a married man

The high price of loving a married man

Our reader Julieta confides her love story to Juan Tonelli: she has fallen in love with a married man and in each of their encounters she asks herself, is this the cost of feeling something?

Love makes us live wonderful moments, create illusions and smile with happiness, however, just as it lifts us to the highest, on many occasions it makes us feel enormous and indescribable pain, as happens with most of the people who write to you. to Juan Tonelli, where they confess their conflicts in love and of course they don’t hesitate to ask him for advice.

Every day this famous Argentine writer reads the stories of the thousands of people who confide their disappointments in love that you can also meet thanks to En Pareja . As on this occasion, a young woman narrated the situation she is experiencing because she fell in love with a married man.

I am a 26 year old woman. For 6 years I have been in a relationship with a boy my age. We were very happy, or at least that’s what I thought, until my boss , who is 45 years old , came into my life. The crush was inevitable and I couldn’t help but fall at his feet.

I am aware that he is married and has a perfect family : beautiful children and a beautiful wife, something that I would like. Despite all that, he and I began to have a forbidden romance.

There I am, just walking the paths of which he has already been and returned a thousand times

Forbidden love. Photo: Unsplash
Forbidden love. Photo: Unsplash

I cannot deny that he makes me feel so alive, that unbridled passion that we have in those clandestine encounters I have not experienced with anyone else and I think that there will be no other person who will make me feel with him.

However, after these moments of great happiness and unbridled passion, feelings of pain come. I feel miserable for receiving and above all being content to receive the crumbs from a person who only looks for me to escape his obligations by having fun with my body.

Although I know that the only one who values ​​me and is committed to me is my boyfriend, I can’t help but have these feelings for my boss. A man who will never leave his family for me.

Is that the cost for feeling something?

With love, Juliet.

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