In relationships, many things are endured in the name of love for the partner, leaving self-love, respect and dignity towards yourself in the background, but there are things that a woman should not endure no matter how much in love she is .
In the name of love you can do many things that are not so good or that end up harming you, and it is that you do not act from the head, but from the heart without stopping to think about the collateral consequences of the actions, but there are things that are not you can ignore and justify, this is what a woman should not put up with, no matter how much in love she is.
When you love you don’t hurt yourself, love is giving the place that everyone deserves, it’s respecting, valuing, radiating harmony, but there are times when you can be blinded by the feeling that is so strong, that you don’t understand that you are sinking, open your eyes and realize what a woman should not put up with, no matter how much in love she is, first you are before him.
In a love relationship there are ups and downs, neither is saved from having differences, from arguing for those different points of view, but when their relationship has firm foundations, prudence fits in both and they sit down to settle those disagreements, without generating more conflicts, but there are things that you definitely cannot tolerate no matter how much love you have for that person, first love yourself.
By falling in love to the bone with a person, you can blind yourself and program yourself so that you do not see anything negative around him, you only focus on his virtues, think from the heart and not from the head and what is reasonable, that is why many times you accept attitudes that are not correct, but you justify everything in the name of the love that you assure that he has for you.
Definitely there are things that you cannot bear no matter how much you are in love, because then it is no longer love, it is already dependency and manipulation, it becomes a relationship that is not healthy at all that is only leaving you wounds without you fully accepting it, but that must end , take into account the points that you should not tolerate and accept as good in your romance.
You should not put up with insults, either verbal and much less physical, that he wants to make you feel less or tells you that he is the one in charge in the relationship and about you is unacceptable, you cannot be next to someone who is more than your partner of life, he sees you as an object that he feels is his property, that he believes he is your owner and that he can command you all the time.
You should not put up with him ridiculing you in front of his friends or family, all human beings have defects, but that does not give anyone the right to expose them to everyone in order to make you feel bad, to make you a zero to the left, so that then he tells you "it was a joke" or "it’s to break the ice", that’s intolerable, you shouldn’t let him do that if it bothers you too much.
You should not put up with him not respecting your relationship, if he is already your partner then he does not have to spend another one in front of your eyes for being macho or the one who can walk with everyone, he must give you your place, respect you, love you and he does not have to hanging out with someone else, infidelity cannot be accepted, such a man should cause you concern and ask yourself if you really want someone like that for yourself.
No matter how much love you have for a man, you cannot put yourself at your feet and make him decide for you, you cannot put up with disrespect and only give you crumbs of his love or attention when he remembers that he has a partner by his side. You must give yourself your place, start by giving yourself self-love, gather all your dignity and realize that a man like that is not worth it.