Apparently not everything we see on social networks is real, study reveals how couples who post a lot of love can be the most unhappy and insecure
This is perhaps the reason why you should not idealize that perfect relationship that we see on screen; Not everything there is real and the couples who boast the most love on social networks may be the most unhappy, according to the study.
Platforms such as Facebook have become a communication tool, but also a tool for exposure. Couples post love and heartbreak , but they may be unhappy, this is just a mask, why?
This study was done by researchers from the University of Norhwester, Wisconsin, Harverford and Toronto, analyzing what is perceived in couples’ networks.
Much is said that true love is not presumed, it is lived and yes, no one should be interested in what they do, say and how to lead their love life and relationships, if they do, are they perhaps seeking the approval of others?
Technology has caught up with us and perhaps to put ourselves at the forefront is that so many photos, statements are uploaded and we publish every step we take, but perhaps we just follow a pattern that is not healthy, in addition to the fact that not all people like to be exposed and This is something that as a couple they should talk.
How many problems does it bring to decide whether or not to put on Facebook that they are "in a relationship" and not because they do not want to show that they have someone by their side but because of the value that many give to that likes or comments that may arise.
The most insecure and anxious couples are the ones who most expose their love life on Facebook and other social networks, said study highlights
Furthermore, both avoidant individuals and their partners were less likely to make their relationships visible. In conclusion, many couples take care of appearances or expose their feelings daily as a sign of manifestation before their feelings, they feel vulnerable and expose it.
It is good to share happiness, if you are going on a trip, or it is a special date, but if this is not your priority this will ensure a successful relationship.