When you have loved too much, sometimes forgetting is a matter that costs a lot, but it is necessary to do it especially when that person has hurt you.
A relationship does not end only when you stop seeing each other and say that it is over, after a love break , comes a process in which time is required to heal the wound that caused you, especially when that person did you so much damage and unfortunately you still love just like when you fell in love.
Forgetting someone who hurt you is one of the most complicated things you can face, it is not easy, it is perhaps more painful than the breakup itself and it requires a lot of time and patience, but it is not impossible, you can get out of that emotional pothole with some tips that we present below.
The process of forgetting someone you loved very much and who gave you a time, be it long or short, full of happiness might not be as easy as some suggest, but you must heal that wound to continue with your life , perhaps wait a prudent time and then reopen your heart to a new love.
Forgive that person . The first thing you should do is forgive that person from your heart. Yes, she hurt you like no one else, she did the worst things to you, she deceived you vilely, but you must learn to forgive her to be good with yourself. Let it stay with that person and not with you.
Take some time with yourself . Do not rush to find another partner, spend some time cuddling, indulge yourself, learn something new, do things that you could not do and have always wanted, rediscover yourself.
Memories are a double-edged sword . You may keep the beautiful memories of the relationship, but those memories will also make you return to that part of your life and therefore to that part in which that person hurt you.
A nail never takes out another nail. Never do this because you could harm third parties who love you well, but because of your desire for revenge come out with collateral damage, do not use an innocent to feel better when you are not.
Don’t hold grudges or pay in kind. This point has to do with the previous one, once you have forgiven, do not hold any more grudges, get rid of those bad and negative feelings and decide what you decide not to do to others what they did to you.