I stopped talking to you, not surprising and much less loving

I stopped talking to you, not surprising and much less loving

It hurts to let go of a person you love, but sometimes circumstances make you have to say goodbye and that is a pain for the other person.

There are situations in life that suddenly make you have to leave the person with whom you are living the greatest love of your life, call it going to work far away or separating because somehow, the relationship is no longer what it was at first, but you still have feelings that are hard to erase.

In that sense, the other person can misinterpret the action you chose, they tell you that they cannot believe that you have finished with what they had and that you have forgotten that love they felt for each other, you feel bad , because you know that you do not you wanted to leave, you just had no choice and it’s hard to understand.

Although it sounds dramatic, there is a part of you that would like to fix things , but you can’t or rather, you can’t, the next thing you will have to face is oblivion, a stage that costs a lot, but that little by little you will achieve, forgetting is perhaps the greatest test of resistance that someone can face.

You are going to miss him, you are going to meet some dark days in which you will wish you had returned with him, it will be something strong for you and you must be aware that your heart may hurt more than you want, but you will remember that there is a powerful reason for which all this is happening, a cause of force majeure.

I stopped talking to you, not surprising and much less loving. Photo: Unsplash
I stopped talking to you, not surprising and much less loving. Photo: Unsplash

At this stage ask yourself if that sacrifice you are making is worth it, are you really going to leave that reciprocated, sincere and great love that you found? If so, go ahead, but consider that it may be a karma that you will find years later, if you are not sure, do not let go of the person who means everything to you.

True love must be cared for and protected even from us, but it may also be that the person you believed to be your true love is not , disappoints you or hurts you, those are the cases in which getting away completely is the best way to loving you, because it also remembers that there is self-love.

It happens that when you meet the person you loved with all your soul, but who hurt you, he tells you why you don’t talk to him anymore, simply because you rescued yourself from a relationship that hurt you, but don’t worry , because maybe you stopped talking to him, but not surprising and much less wanting .