Submissive people can easily be detected, and it is a very serious problem that seriously affects their self-esteem. The good news is that there are things that can be done to get it back.
A submissive personality usually refers to those who find it very difficult to refuse other people’s requests; It doesn’t matter if they already have a plan or if they don’t feel like fulfilling their whims, they always end up being subjected and hardly say no; So in today’s article we are going to talk about the traits and attitudes that define a submissive personality.
Being submissive is synonymous with poor self-esteem, we are talking about people who have problems to socialize in a healthy way, their behaviors are usually out of the ordinary and their mood is very vulnerable. Curiously, many people act through a "shield" with which they protect their weaknesses, so that it is not always easy to identify those who are submissive.
Submission is a behavior problem that people adopt when they have a very low self-esteem, although it is true that no person has a completely healthy self-esteem, in fact, at some point in our lives we are vulnerable and give in to pressure from others , but the real problem is when this behavior is present in much of our lives.
Many times this behavioral pattern is constantly repeated without us being aware that we are giving in to others, usually it is until we get tired of always receiving bad treatment, when we feel that everyone exceeds us, that they hurt us, that we are not they allow us to progress as we want, when we fall on the 20th that we are doing something wrong, but the reality is that oneself allows it and you give the power to others so that they can crush us at will; that’s definitely not right, and it’s a red flag.
Those who do not have self-confidence and do not trust their abilities to be accepted in society will hardly be able to relate in an assertive way, on the contrary they will always have a defensive attitude, believing that in this life if you let yourself they will eat you. These types of people do not value themselves in a positive way, and they usually think that their needs are not that important, so they tend to give in and give priority to the needs of others.
If this type of behavior does not improve, in the future so-called toxic relationships may occur, why? because it does not give importance to their needs and points of view. The important thing here is that this behavior can be corrected as soon as possible; You have to know how to value yourself positively and train your basic social skills.