A check says more than a thousand words, if the man you like and with whom you want to have something serious does not answer your messages, this is what you have to do
Nobody likes those blue popcorn on WhatsApp, they are a real headache, especially if the person who opened the message and does not respond to you is your crush, that man you like, it’s like receiving a blow to the face, If it has happened to you and even continues to happen to you, we will tell you what to do if it leaves you in the dark , generating a thousand doubts and a lot of frustration.
It happens to you that you have to lose your dignity, eat your anger and be the one to send him another message to see if now he does answer you or he writes to you until the next day or in a week, if he leaves you on seen and does not answer you that man that you like with that spirit or frequency with which you do it, we tell you what to do so that it does not happen to you again and they do not apply it to you again.
A seen says more than a thousand words , only that you refuse to accept or recognize those red flags that are present in that man, but it is time for you to take off the blindfold and start doing something about it, but no more send him a second message thinking that he forgot to answer you or that you did not write the idea well that you wanted him to know.
1. Do not send a second message: Nobody ignores who is interested and that although it sounds strong and it hurts to hear it, you have to accept it, when you really care about someone you want to be talking, knowing everything they do during their day and not you get bored answering his messages, so you must take your place, pick up your dignity and not answer him again no matter how much you can’t wait.
2. Understand the reason why he does not answer you: Here is something very important that you have to investigate, the reason why he does not answer you, and that is that you do not have to ask him directly why he does not listen to you because it would be like humiliating yourself alone, but if he is really interested in you, he will tell you alone that he does not answer you soon because he is working, because he cannot use his cell phone, but he gives you a valid reason not to overthink.
3. Do the same to him: Paying with the same currency is not always good advice, but in this case, yes, don’t think that he has you at his feet and don’t increase his ego by answering 3 seconds after his message arrived, while that he only reads it and that’s it, apply it to him, don’t answer him quickly, stay online, but don’t open his chat, let him now be the one who misses you.
4. Go too: If he is ignoring you, it is a clear sign that he does not want anything serious, that he does not like you enough, that he is not born to be with you, talk and know more about you, so do not keep insisting, Get away from there, go where nothing is mutual, where interest only comes from you and where you give a lot to receive nothing or very little, because there you will not be happy.